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Pissing, also known as urolagnia or golden showers, is a BDSM practice that involves the act of urinating on or being urinated on by a partner as a form of sexual stimulation or humiliation. It is considered an edge play activity and falls within the realm of fetish or kink.

In this practice, individuals may derive sexual arousal or gratification from the act of urination itself, the power dynamics involved, or the taboo nature of the activity. It is important to note that engaging in any BDSM activity requires consent, communication, and a clear understanding of boundaries between all involved parties.

As with any sexual practice, it is crucial to engage in open and honest communication with your partner, establish boundaries, and prioritize consent and safety. It is also recommended to educate oneself about the potential risks associated with any sexual activity and take necessary precautions to prevent the spread of sexually transmitted infections or other health concerns.

Golden rain, piss play, water sport, urinotherapy. Among all sexual practices, the pissing is perhaps the one that has as many synonyms as detractors. Who among you has not emitted a grimace of disgust at the idea of having your partner pee on you? Yet, come to think of it, why does semen during the fellatio yes and urine no? Let us free the field for a moment from all psychological implications, e.g., the conception of pissing as a disparaging and humiliating act, and examine the absolute protagonist of this whole affair. First, human pee, especially when fresh, is not toxic but rather sterile and antiseptic. It certainly hides some bacteria from the urethra or genitals, but in itself it is 95% water, 2.5% urea and 2.5% salt and other minerals (magnesium, calcium, potassium), vitamins B and C + a mixture of hormones and enzymes. In short, as impressive as it may sound, coming into contact with it is not deleterious, although it is certainly not the most hygienic practice there is. It is no coincidence that pissing is still very uncommon in The United States, while it meets with quite a lot of approval in Central European and Nordic countries, where the immoderate consumption of alcohol just before sex makes pissing an almost physiological urge.

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PISSING: A COMMON EROTIC FANTASY

Pissing can have a dual nature: either of impromptu erotic play that assumes no unequal relationship of domination/submission but rather involving complicity such that any liquid from the partner is welcome (semen as well as pee), or of actual practice BDSM, where urination on the submissive takes on the connotations of humiliation, consenting certainly, but still devaluing. Then, to a small extent, there are those who like the sensation of warm, amber liquid running down the body, beyond all subtext. Perhaps, however, pissing is more a part of our lives than we are willing to admit: have you ever, for example, peed at night between parked cars and aroused a certain amount of interest in your boyfriend, especially if he is on his first outings? It is, in fact, a usually very private moment that thus reveals itself and denudes us, giving us boldness, audacity, perhaps even a bit of dirt, that sexual dirt, not only physical but also psychological, that in their eyes makes us endearing “sluts.” Pissing as a codified practice is exactly this taken to its excess.

OTHER PRACTICES OF PISSING

It can also take place at different levels: directly on the body, genitals, face, and mouth, or indirectly in the form of “clothes wetting” (peeing oneself and being left with wet clothes) or the “bathing“, or bathing or showering together contaminating each other’s pee. Don’t shudder, haven’t you perhaps already done this in the sea, inches apart?

In any case, the issue is not “to do it or not to do it”, but to understand that everything exists in love and everything is permissible, as long as the parties are not only consenting, but also happy, aware and attentive to their own health. Our advice is not to preclude anything that is not detrimental to each other’s freedom and dignity, but with a dutiful obligation: to do it the right way after being properly informed.

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This content discusses the topic of urination as a sexual practice, commonly referred to as “pissing”. It addresses the stereotypes and disgust associated with this practice, and examines the composition of urine to determine its potential harm. The content explains that urination can be both a consensual, intimate act and a form of humiliation in BDSM relationships. It also mentions different ways in which urine can be incorporated during sexual activities, such as directly on the body or indirectly through wetting clothes or bathing together. The overall message encourages open-mindedness and informed consent when engaging in any sexual practice.

FAQ

What is pissing in BDSM?

Pissing, also known as watersports, is a BDSM practice that involves urination as a form of sexual or psychological arousal or dominance. It can be consensual and enjoyable for some individuals or couples who engage in this activity.

Is pissing considered a common practice in couples’ sexuality?

Though pissing is not as commonly practiced as other BDSM activities, it can be part of a couple’s sexual repertoire if both partners are interested and consenting. It is important to communicate and discuss boundaries, desires, and limits before engaging in any BDSM activities.

How do couples engage in pissing as a BDSM practice?

ouples that engage in pissing typically incorporate it into their sexual activities by urinating on one another, either directly, onto specific body parts, or into containers for later use. It may involve various power dynamics, humiliation, or simply be a fetish for some individuals.

Is pissing safe?

When practiced safely and consensually, pissing can be safe. It is crucial to prioritize hygiene and safety during these activities. Both partners should be aware of the risks associated with improper hygiene and urinary tract infections, and take necessary precautions such as discussing boundaries, using clean containers, and cleaning up afterward.

How can I introduce pissing into my sexual relationship?

If you are interested in exploring pissing with your partner, the first step is to have an open and honest conversation about your desires and boundaries. Discuss any concerns or questions, and ensure both partners are comfortable and consenting. Start with small steps, such as incorporating verbal fantasies, before progressing to more physical aspects.

Are there any risks or precautions to consider when engaging in pissing?

Yes, there are risks involved in pissing, especially regarding hygiene and urinary tract infections. Both partners must ensure they are well-hydrated beforehand. It is also crucial to maintain proper hygiene, including showering before and after, and avoiding ingestion of urine. Communicate any concerns or discomfort during or after the activity and seek medical advice if needed.

Can pissing be degrading or humiliating?

Pissing can involve elements of degradation or humiliation for those who enjoy those aspects of BDSM play. However, it is essential to establish clear boundaries and limits between partners. Consent and communication are key in determining the level of degradation or humiliation that is mutually acceptable and enjoyable.

What should I do if I am not comfortable with pissing in my relationship?

It is completely normal to have preferences or boundaries when it comes to any sexual activities, including pissing. If you are not comfortable with or interested in engaging in pissing, it is important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner. Discuss alternative activities or find common ground that is mutually satisfying for both of you. Mutual consent and comfort are vital for a healthy sexual relationship.

Mary D. Walters
BDSM Psychologist
With a profound commitment to understanding the deeper intricacies of human sexuality, Mary D. Walters stands as a leading figure in the realm of BDSM psychology. With over two decades of professional experience, she has dedicated her career to aiding individuals in navigating their unique desires, fetishes, and boundaries.